Thursday, June 25, 2009

My memories of Michael Jackson

I don't usually get mushy when celebrities die, but it is not often when a celebrity actually had an effect on my life. There are seldom times when I have happy memories connected to a person who I never met.

Now, as I watch msnbc, as I watch the talking heads recount their memories of "Wacko Jacko", I find myself recounting mine.

When I was born it was 1984. About the time that Michael Jackson was on top, and my Aunt Kate wore a single glove to my birth. I've been told this story countless times.

I had three tapes to my name when I was a child. The Beatles' "Magic Mystery Tour", Steve Martin's "Let's Get Small", and Michael Jackson's "Thriller". I would play with my Barbies and listen to "Billy Jean", "Got to be Startin' Somethin'", and "The Girl is Mine".

Then there was Halloween. My mother would dress my brother and I and my family would drive to Custer and go trick or treating. When we were tired and cracky, and full on sugar and chocolate, my father would sit us down and we would all watch "Thriller". My whole family. I would be scared and my grandfather would hug me in his lap.

People say that Michael Jackson was a creepy pedophile, and he may have been, but there was one thing I knew as a child. He knew how to communicate feeling, and he knew how to create memories.

And those are mine.

Monday, April 13, 2009

Charity money stolen from Circle K, customers rally to earn it back

Dozens of tiny red, white and yellow paper hot-air balloons fluttered near the ceiling in the breeze from an air conditioner, as they struggled to lift off as if they were real.However, tiny bits of scotch tape kept them grounded.

They seemed to know that what they were meant to symbolize had been challenged.

Below them, three police officers chatted with the manager of the tiny, dilapidated Circle K convenience store at the intersection of Lovell Street and Oakland Drive in Kalamazoo. Terry Clawson, 48, had only been the manager there since just after the new year.

“Where I came from, in Plainwell, something like this would never happen,” Clawson said, a combined look of amazement and disgust on her face.

Those flimsy balloons were donation markers for the Children’s Miracle Network, a non-profit organization that is dedicated to raising funds for children’s hospitals. According to their website, there are 170 Children’s Miracle Network hospitals. They provide medical care, research, and preventative education to help millions of children around the United States.

They raise money through fund raisers at places like Circle K. Customers can purchase a balloon for a dollar, and write their name proudly on the front to be displayed, or offer up the change from their purchases to a designated basket that sat on the counter.

“That guy just took off with it,” Clawson said. “He was hanging around the store, harassing customers. I told him I was calling the cops, and that’s when he grabbed it. There was probably only 13 bucks in there.”

That same man, described to be a black man in his late twenties or early thirties, had been in the store already once that day, Clawson explained. He came in early in the morning on Monday, April 13, with beer bottles, wanting to exchange them for the deposit, but got angry with Clawson when she wouldn’t take some of the returns.

The store’s policy is to only take back the brands they sell, and about half of the man’s returns were not brands sold at that store.

The man argued with her, but eventually took his deposit money, and Clawson didn’t expect to see him again that day.

A little after noon, the man returned with a little charity of his own.

“He asked if ‘that real nice broad’ that helped him out this morning was still around,” Tim Cole, the clerk who was working at the time, said.

The man had brought her a bag with something to eat inside, but when Clawson refused to take it he became irate.

“He was cussing, and making a fool of himself,” Clawson said. “Seriously, the words coming out of his mouth were embarrassing.”

Cole and Clawson ordered the man to leave the store, but were not having any luck, so they decided to call 911. As Clawson pressed the numbers, the man grabbed the metal basket with the donation money from the counter and bolted out the door.

Melvin Schmidt, a friend of the store’s regional manager, was in the back working on the floor. He saw the man take off on foot, and chased after him. Schmidt jumped on his ten-speed bike, and hurried to catch the man before he got too far.

“I finally caught up to him by the cemetery,” Schmidt said, as he puffed on a cigarette, his face still red and blotchy from the chase.

Mountain Home Cemetery, is about a mile from the store on West Main Street, and almost all up hill, just passed Kalamazoo College. By the time Schmidt got there the police were blocking the man’s way. They apprehended him, but he didn’t have any of the money on him.

“I’ve been picking up loose change that dropped all over the place,” Schmidt said.

That change was supposed to be headed to the Helen DeVos Children’s Hospital in Grand Rapids. The donations go through the Children’s Miracle Network, and immediately to the Grand Rapids hospital.

The Helen DeVos Children’s Hospital cares for children throughout Michigan, and boasts one of the largest neonatal departments in the nation.

The day before, the assistant manager, Ryan Stenthem, had defended the stores decision to keep the basket displayed on the counter.

“When I asked a girl if she would like to donate her change, she commented on how surprised she was that no one had stolen it,” he said. “I told her that our customers were better than that. I guess I was wrong.”

The Circle K stores participate in two fund raisers a year. They sponsor the March of Dimes during the month of October, and the Children’s Miracle Network during April.

“We really get into it,” Clawson said. “We have a contest to see who of the employees can collect the most.”

Right now, the Lovell Street store is placed fifth out of the eight regional Circle K stores.

“But we’ve only been at it for three days,” she said. “I’m looking for our numbers to go up during this week. We’ve got really generous customers.”

And that is the truth.

Cole mentioned that just after the incident, he had already raised back most of the money.

“The customers were really angry that someone would do something so ridiculous,” he said. “That is their money.”

“One of the police officers told me how upset he was,” Clawson said. “He’d said that was people’s hard-earned cash, and there isn’t much of it to part with nowadays.”

The store will press charges against the man, Clawson said. Also, he is never allowed back into the store again.

Customers still continue to show their support. Just before Clawson left for the day, an older woman entered the store.

“I found this up the hill,” the unknown woman said, as she handed Clawson the empty basket with the sign that reads, “Please donate your change to the Children’s Hospital” still taped on the front. “I heard that you lost it.”

Clawson placed the basket back in its rightful place on the counter under the paper balloons.

The clerks will continue to ask for change, but will keep a closer eye on the collection basket, and periodically remove some of the cash, and deposit it into their drawers.

“I’m hoping that was the one bad apple,” Clawson said.

Monday, March 30, 2009

Nothing New News...

I took a couple more pics of the violets or what ever they are outside the back door. There is a daffodil that is about to bloom too. I'm excited that I live in an apartment house, where the landlord actually cares about the flowers outside. The house might not look like much, but dammit the yard is gorgeous! I also started a new crochet project on Wednesday. A little while back I bought a bunch of yarn off of Webs. I was going to make a sweater/pullover I found in Interweave Crochet, but decided against it. I'm not real comfortable with shaping yet, and didn't want to risk fucking it up. So, I slept on it and decided to make a skirt. I've wanted to make one for a really long time, but didn't find any I really liked. I settled on Violet Beauregard from the Stitch 'N' Bitch crochet book. I really like it so far. I'll make a lining for it when it is done, and put a little bit of elastic at the top to help the drawstring with the weight of the skirt. I'll probably buy a really nice ribbon. Something with a bunch of pizazz! Hella pizazz.

Monday, March 23, 2009

The Very First Spring Flowers I've Seen!

Well, I think it is really finally spring time. I saw the first flowers yesterday morning when I was leaving for work. Just three little violets waving in the brisk wind whipping around them. It made me so happy I just had to take a picture of them!
Speaking of taking pictures, not too happy with the new camera I bought. However, it could also be that I still don't understand how it works yet. I really miss my Canon Digital Elph, but it was an old camera. It paid it's dues. That thing went all around the world with me. Heck, it still has Baghdad dust in the view finder. Rest in peace, little Elph!

Thursday, October 02, 2008

I'm Not Even Supposed To Be Here Today!

Well, I am officially a clerk! I am a loser who works at a convenience store...and I would like to correct it is not a Mobil...it is a Marathon station. It's easy, it's mindless, and I love it! The perfect job for me at the moment. Whoo! I just have to make sure that I keep my girlyness because the entire store is run by dykes and two dorky dudes. Eek! Oh...and Stella! Stella! Who's real name is Stephanie. Don't really know why everyone calls her Stella.

So...I'm just dinking around before I have to go in today, and that's really it. School's going really well. I've got an 84% on each of my first two tests and an A- on my first paper. I'm liking most of my teachers, and everything is well. I really miss the community college atmosphere "where every one knows your name" and all the teachers are friendly and personable. This campus is so huge and my classes are so large that I can't really meet anyone. I'm taking it is stride though. I really like my life here. For the first time in a really long time I am content! Yay! So...enjoy some Clerks and have a great day!